Allen’s “brother & sister,” Emberson & Millie Cox

Continuing from the last post; Allen Erp sent a letter from Murfreesboro, TN in 1863 to Emberson & Millie Cox. He called them “brother & sister” in his letter. The thought is that since Allen & his wife, Sarah, could not read or write, someone wrote the letter for him & he sent it to a family member.

Walter Emberson Cox (1822-1879) was married to Millie Alexander (1834-1921). They lived in Sugar Creek Twp. of Clinton County, Indiana. They are buried in Hills Baptist Church Cemetery. Walter served in the US Army, Company F of 30th Indiana Infantry from October 26, 1864 to August 15, 1865.

Allen Erp was married to Sarah Alexander, so Millie and Sarah were sisters. Sounds simple, doesn’t it?

However, there is some confusion out there about the Alexander families.

From what I have found, the father of both Sarah and Millie was William P. Alexander (1810-1863), his wife was Elizabeth Stogsdill. William P. is buried in Hills Baptist Church Cemetery.

William P.’s father was William Alexander (ca1777-1855), wife was Mary Hargis.

William & Mary had several children, how many is not clear. He is also often listed as Sarah Alexander’s father. I’m not sure what sources people use for this information, but it is the predominant theory. One problem is that the first Census to name all members of the household was the 1850 US Census and by then Sarah is married to Allen Erp and out of her father’s household.

The 1850 US Census for Clinton Co, IN has several Alexanders listed, including a few Williams and another Sarah Alexander of about the same age as my Sarah (she fits as being a wife of one of the Williams). And again, Sarah and Allen are already married by 1850 and show up in the same area of Clinton County as many of the Alexanders.

Also, the US Census record for William P. Alexander in Clinton County, IN, shows him and his wife Elizabeth; a 19 yr old daughter, Mary; 10 yr old daughter Oma A; and another 4 yr old girl named Sarah “Leioel”. So I guess people figure that this Sarah would be William P.’s daughter and it wouldn’t make sense to have another daughter named Sarah. The Census record is very difficult to read. But I did notice that the enumerator only listed 2 names when he was indicating first and last names, otherwise he used first name and an initial. So perhaps Sarah “Leioel” was a neighbor or family member who was visiting the home. I can’t find any similar names in the rest of the local Census region yet. So, still looking.

1850 US Census, Clinton County IN, Sugar Creek Twp.(from


  • William P Alexander 40
  • Elizabeth 44
  • Mary 19
  • Oma A 10
  • Sarah “Leioel” 4
  • Allen Erp 22
  • Sarah 21
  • William 5
  • Hannah 2
  • Andrew 2/12
  • Walter E Cox 24
  • Milla (Millie) 15


The Erps and Alexanders came from Pulaski Co, KY and moved to Clinton Co, IN.

Anyway, William P. and Elizabeth are listed as Sarah Alexander Erp’s parents in the family Bible record of her marriage, on her Death Certificate and in her obituary. Millie Cox is listed as her sister in the obit. Millie was still alive when Sarah died in 1912, so I doubt this listing was a mistake.

So, Walter Emberson Cox was Brother-in-law to Allen and Sarah, with Millie being Sarah’s sister.

Sarah and Millie had other siblings: Mary (1831-1907) who married Sam Boyer, Sr.; Nancy (ca 1833-1900) who married Nelson Louks; Malinda A. (1837-1848); Naomi America (1840-1857); then the mysterious Sarah “Leioel”.

Not much of a story here except a learning experience researching the family history.

So adding a few generations to the tree: William & Mary (Hargis) Alexander—son William P. & Elizabeth (Stogsdill) Alexander—dau Sarah Alexander & Allen Erp—dau Sarah Alzada Erp & Alva Boone—dau Mary G. Boone & Arza Millikan—dau Margaret P. Millikan & Loran McKinley—son (my father)–me.

© MJMcK 2016

A Letter from War

As mentioned in the first post, my grandmother, Margaret McKinley, had a collection of family history treasures. She was the family historian before me & had a wealth of information. I am grateful to her for sharing some of her knowledge with me and for giving me most of her collection before she died in 2007.

Allen Erp, my 3rd Great Grandfather, served in the 86th Regiment, Company G, of the Indiana Volunteers from August 2, 1862 until June 6, 1865.

Grandma had a copy of a letter that Allen sent home from the war. According to Grandma, Allen and his wife, Sarah, were not able to read or write. So the letter was sent to a family member. She said the original was given to descendants of that family member. The copy that Grandma had was old and dark, very difficult to read. But here goes:

The letterhead is a graphic of soldiers fighting with the caption, “Desperate Bayonet Charge at Battle of Winchester, March 23, led by Gen. Tyler.” (I think this is referring to a battle of Winchester, VA)

The letter reads as follows (with lack of punctuation and capitalization as common in letters of the time period):

Murfreesboro Tn, June the 4 1863 Co. G. 86 Ind reg vol (2nd) ) Brigade 9th division 21st Army corps Dep of the cumberlain / brothe and sister it is with pleasure that i write to let you no that i am well and hope that this will find you in joying good health allso amberson i thought that i would rite you if you did not to me i think you ought to write for you donte have to git some boddy els to write for you and have plenty time and have every thing proper to your hand. there is a move here now sertain and i donte no where nor wich way write if you please if you donte hold eny mallis againste me and if there is any thing betwix us i donte no it so write enny how emberson i would like to see you verry much but i cannot so i wante to keep up communication with you for resons that i will tel you when i get an answer to this write all of the times of the neiborhood and country and of the people in genarl i am a ambulance driver it is a good birth a good plase eassy i donte have to cook enny and see a good time of it but i have not received enny pay since i have left indiana but expect every day when i will the loss of my fingers is painfull in boddy and mind and i am lost when i go to take hold of enny thing for i forgit that thare are gone i am sure to hit them againste enny thing when i go to take hold of enny thing if i am in a hurry but if i coud be there talk with you and see my family and no how there a gitting alonge i woud be rather [hole in page] in the army but as it is i am not if i was there i coud tel you a great menny things to that you cannot write i coud contain you a weak or more and it woud all be interesting to you and it woud pay enny man that has got the money to spare to come and see for himself it woud not take much for a person to come here i send this letter to this office to see which wone tha come to the quickest and if tha come to that me sooner i will send my letters there so write and let me no about it do be sure to answer this letter for it might pay you to write for i can find out [too faded to read] regiment you may rest a shurd of that it come from an nother and i wante you to tend a little to my family and i will reward you for it for i put conffidcnce in you for i no that you will not see enny thing go to loss if it can be hope so no more at preasant but ever remain your brother and sister until death Allen erp to emberson cox and milly cox milly i woud like to hear from you

Well, I guess it is a little hard to get through, but a few things stood out to me. Allen has been in the Army for just under a year, and has already lost his fingers. He was most likely no longer able to fire a rifle, but worked as an ambulance driver. Hard to imagine what that was like.

He also hasn’t been paid since leaving Indiana. He’s concerned about his family back home and would like to hear any news.

There is a history of the 86th Regiment available free on Google Books: The Eighty-Sixth Regiment, Indiana Volunteer Infantry, by James A. Barnes et al., published in 1895. It indicates that the Regiment became part of the Army of the Cumberland. They had been in Murfreesboro, TN for about 6 months when this letter was written. They continued on through Southern Tennessee and North Alabama for most of the War. It is a little awkward living in the South & discussing Civil War ancestors, knowing that one of my ancestors was a part of what was considered the invading and occupying forces down here.

So to whom did he write? “brother & sister” Emberson and Milly Cox. Who were they? More to come…

©MJMcK 2016

Getting Started–A Civil War Connection

It was in the mid 1990’s when my folks visited Dad’s mother, Margaret P. (Millikan) McKinley, in Westfield, Indiana. Mom called me soon after that to tell me that Grandma had treasures dating back to the time of the Civil War. Knowing I was a history buff, Mom figured I would be interested in what Grandma had. First, there was an original US Army Discharge Certificate, then a Pension Certificate and finally a copy of a letter from a soldier. Mom transcribed what she could read, but I wanted to see the originals.

On my next trip to visit Grandma, I saw these papers & marveled at the fact that they were over 100 yrs old and represented a connection to the history of the United States.

The name of the soldier was Allen Urp, as officially written on the military papers. I had no clue who this man was. Grandma explained his name was actually Allen Erp & he was her great grandfather. She talked about other family members, but it was like she was talking in code, none of the names were familiar. She talked about “Gee-Gee” and “Granny Boone” & said on her Mother’s side there were connections to Daniel Boone and Wyatt Earp. But this Erp wasn’t spelled the same, so how were we connected? And who was Allen Erp anyway? How was he related to me? Where did he come from? What kind of experience did he have in the war? All of these questions and a glimpse of Grandma’s treasures, started me on the road to Chasing Ancestors & Finding Stories…

So, Allen “Urp”, per his US Military Discharge certificate, dated June 6, 1865, was born in Pulaski County, Kentucky; was 35 years old at time of discharge (however, he was listed as being 33 in the 1860 US Census); 5′ 7” tall, with fair complexion, blue eyes & auburn hair. He was a farmer when he enlisted. He was a Private in Company G of the 86th Regiment of the Indiana Volunteers. Enlisted August 7, 1862. He was discharged in Nashville, TN.

According to his Invalid Pension certificate, dated May 25, 1878, Allen received $5.00 per month from March 4, 1878 to April 3, 1878. Then received $8.00 after that. A notation stated the pension was for “Gun shot wound of right hand, with loss of index and middle fingers. Biennial examination not required.” I guess they figured he had a legitimate injury that didn’t have to be routinely verified.

Allen married Sarah Alexander in 1844 in Pulaski Co, KY. They moved to Clinton County, IN around 1848. Allen & Sarah had 9 children: William Singleton, Hannah Elizabeth, Andrew Jackson, Allen Jefferson, Mary Margaret, Joshua Kerry, Aaron Union, Sarah Alzada, & Norman Frank. Sarah Alzada is my direct ancestor. Allen died in 1885, most likely in Clinton County, Indiana. He is buried at Spencer Cemetery, near Sheridan, in Hamilton County, IN.

More on Allen’s Civil War story next time…

© MJMcK 2016